We’d been living in a world full of criticism. Anything you do means a lot already. Your simple “Hi” and “Hello” can be interpret in so many ways. The way you used to live can be define positvely or negatively.
“Well that’s the reason why most people live now to meet everyone’s expectation. “
The rawness of their being has been tainted with a beautiful canvass that can portray a perfect art from everyone’s eyes. To be able to be accepted in this society, they put a mask that can draw anyone’s attention and to get a lot of positve affection. As they continue to live a life far more different from the real one, they ended up not getting away from it.
“It became addiction. A toxic one.”
So here’s the steps for everyone to get away from their own misrepresentation:
- To get away from it they need to start in the beginning which is to find their ownselves and know how everything started. In finding theirselves they need to embrace their flaws and insecurities. They need to accept the real ones, without levaing all the negatives. Once they start to understand their situtation and their being everything will follow through.
- Not because you can’t it doesn’t mean you won’t. One of the reason why people tend to portray someone that they are not is because they badly wanted to live that way without even trying to do things for it to happen. Trust in yourself is the key. Your limitation are only temporary if you start to see it that way. Belive that you can be someone that you can be proud of and by that time start to do something to achieve it.
- Have a room for judgements. Not all will be genuinely cheer you up through the process. You’ll receive a lot of hate and negative but see to it that “You’ll gonna be ok”. You don’t need everyone’s approval in something that you wanted to pursue, just go for it and brush them off.
- Focus on your self growth. It will never be over for anyone regardless of what time they started to change their way of life. Self growth is always important and it doesn’t choose anyone to be qualified to have it. As you decided to make everything real and not to put an act anymore, make sure that you focus on your well being. Make an effort to let your body, mind and soul be healthy.
- This time make it real. You’d been there so now you need to make sure this time everything will be real. Make it a habit that instead of keeping your insecurities at bay, learn to use it as motivation to be better. Stop portraying someone that is far from who you are. Be proud in your ownself while aiming for continuous growth.
Social misrepresentation has been there and will surely be present in the future. To be able not to end up in this situation one must need to believe in their own selves and stop this kind of addiction. The world should be a place to live and not a battlefield for people who want to be accepted. Let’s break this social norm and live our lives according to what we really are.
